"Don't ever take advantage of something given to you for free, it could be gone in the blink of an eye"
When it comes to being in a healthy relationship, you should know by now that it takes plenty of work. Not work in the sense of blood and sweat, but work in the sense of functioning as a team rather than just an individual.
Now that doesn't mean you giving up your identify and have some super-consciousness, but just simply thinking of your partner's needs alongside your own. You know the little moments like when you go to the store and pick up an extra soda because "Babe" might be thirsty also..lol
It's crazy, but some people don't even get just that little bit. Anywho, I've put together a few tips that can help you start to strengthen that bond with the one you love or like...Right now!
Communication Is Key
Yes, I know we've all heard this one before, but there's always room to become a better communicator,especially in a relationship because after all, exchanging ideas is how you build rapport.
Think about it, you talk to someone and become interested in their ideas and beliefs and the next thing you know you're on the couch butt-naked talking about pass the Frito's..lol You may laugh, but you know it's true. Communicating is how we connect with others and develop healthy or unhealthy relationships.
So What Does That Mean For You?
Well, now that you know how important communication is let me provide a few insights and tips for you to use tonight ^_^
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Learn To Compromise
Yep that's right sweetie, you can't always be right. Sometimes you have to not get your way and yield for the greater health of your relationship.
How would you like to always be over-talked or stuck with the short end of the stick every time you two need to make a decision? It would probably suck donkey dick with flies on top..lol
And since nobody reading this is trying to smooch a donkey..lol, here are a few insights to remember when attempting to compromise:
Let Babe into your mind sometimes. Let him/her know how you feel about things, you can't keep holding your thoughts and feelings all to yourself because that's the quickest way to create a rift in your relationship.
You've got to be willing to go out on a limb and express your true feelings and not just what you think they want to hear, but how you really feel. If you don't like something, tell them. If you love it, then show it.
A Few Tips And Insights To Remember When Expressing Emotions
Well, there it is folks. Three tips and a slew of insights you can use right now to strengthen the bond in your relationship.
You know as I wrote this, I saw a lot of areas I could expand on or possibly put into a book if your the kindle or nook type of reader ^_^ I hope this helps you on your quest to kill the drama in your life, but especially in your relationships. Thanks for reading and have an awesome day!
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