Yes, I said it Drought..lol You know that period when you and your boyfriend fall into that ol' familiar routine, where you do what you do just to get it over with an done. That moment when you say things like, "I have to be to work at 8 so let's make it quick".
If you don't know what I'm talking about yet..give it some time...lol
The reason that this happens is because sex with the same person over and over no matter how much you love them can become boring. Just flat out routine and filled with no surprises.
I mean after a while, you've done just about all you can do. You did it in the shower, on the couch, in the car and hell you might have even done it upside down. So what's next?
What could possibly be left that you two haven't tried? Well, that's what tonight's little insight is all about. I'm going to share with you 3 Sex Tips to end your drought. Are you ready? Let's Go...
If you don't know what I'm talking about yet..give it some time...lol
The reason that this happens is because sex with the same person over and over no matter how much you love them can become boring. Just flat out routine and filled with no surprises.
I mean after a while, you've done just about all you can do. You did it in the shower, on the couch, in the car and hell you might have even done it upside down. So what's next?
What could possibly be left that you two haven't tried? Well, that's what tonight's little insight is all about. I'm going to share with you 3 Sex Tips to end your drought. Are you ready? Let's Go...
Sex Tip #1 Role-Play
Now I know some of you may be thinking, "Hey, I've already done this" and if that's the case my question to you is "But have you done it right though?"
I'm talking about have you walked through the door with your fake accent, kinky outfit and really put on a show? The kind that will make your man fall out of his chair and say, "Where did my girlfriend go?"...lol
You see the thing about role-play is that it extends well beyond just putting on a different outfit, it's a total transformation. It's donning a whole new personality with interests and passions that you normally wouldn't even consider.
Now what makes this one even better is if your boyfriend is on-board and picks a new persona as well. Like say, maybe he knows you have a thing for firemen dripping with beads of hot sweat and he shows up early one night and catches you off guard.
Yeah, I know it may sound a little crazy, but that's the whole point of role-play. Being adventurous with someone you trust that doesn't mind if you get a little silly or naughty.
Basically when it comes to role-play, the sky is the limit. You're only limited by your imagination.
I'm talking about have you walked through the door with your fake accent, kinky outfit and really put on a show? The kind that will make your man fall out of his chair and say, "Where did my girlfriend go?"...lol
You see the thing about role-play is that it extends well beyond just putting on a different outfit, it's a total transformation. It's donning a whole new personality with interests and passions that you normally wouldn't even consider.
Now what makes this one even better is if your boyfriend is on-board and picks a new persona as well. Like say, maybe he knows you have a thing for firemen dripping with beads of hot sweat and he shows up early one night and catches you off guard.
Yeah, I know it may sound a little crazy, but that's the whole point of role-play. Being adventurous with someone you trust that doesn't mind if you get a little silly or naughty.
Basically when it comes to role-play, the sky is the limit. You're only limited by your imagination.
Sex Tip #2 Change The Location
Yes, get out of the freakin bedroom! How many times can you have sex in that same bed..night after night..doing the same freaking things.
Now depending on what your household is like, switch the shit up..lol Kitchen counters, balconies, bar stools and even the rooftop can add new dimensions to your freaky-deeky.
No one said, "You can only have sex in the bed". Sex is about expression and when it's with someone you care about that you can be open with, nothing is off limits.
You can even take the heat outside in the snow, to the car wash or any and everywhere you can get it in..lol Hell, just make it a point to have sex somewhere new at least once a week.
Breaking up that routine will open new conversations and experiences that might be just what your body needed to unleash that geyser you've been sittin on;)
Now depending on what your household is like, switch the shit up..lol Kitchen counters, balconies, bar stools and even the rooftop can add new dimensions to your freaky-deeky.
No one said, "You can only have sex in the bed". Sex is about expression and when it's with someone you care about that you can be open with, nothing is off limits.
You can even take the heat outside in the snow, to the car wash or any and everywhere you can get it in..lol Hell, just make it a point to have sex somewhere new at least once a week.
Breaking up that routine will open new conversations and experiences that might be just what your body needed to unleash that geyser you've been sittin on;)
Sex Tip #3 Break Out The Toy Box
Now when it comes to adding something new and fresh to the sex in your relationship nothing is as readily available as a new toy.
It doesn't matter if you like em Big, Fat, Short, Wide, White, Black or Long and Skinny you can find a vibe just right for you. They even come with rabbit ears, water-proof or just plain silicone. All you do is pick something you like and try it out.
And if that's old news to you, then get one for your backdoor, they even have this nice little diamond one that everyone's wearing these days..lol It's rather remarkable if the light hits it just right..lol or so I hear;)
But not all the toys are just for women, they have tons of pleasurable items for men too, depending on how open he is to experimentation.
You see the thing with sex toys is that they are not a replacement for sex, but merely a compliment to the sensation you and that special someone already create together.
Throwing the right toy on the cookie at the right time can ignite a fire hot enough to singe the hairs off your man's lips... if he gets too close;) You just gotta take a little time to explore and see what you like until you find the sensation just right for you.
I could go on all day about sex toys and what they do, but how about I just let youtake a look for yourself. Now that company I just highlighted is one that I personally use and will continue to use when I'm looking to throw a little gasoline on the fire..if you know what I mean;)
It doesn't matter if you like em Big, Fat, Short, Wide, White, Black or Long and Skinny you can find a vibe just right for you. They even come with rabbit ears, water-proof or just plain silicone. All you do is pick something you like and try it out.
And if that's old news to you, then get one for your backdoor, they even have this nice little diamond one that everyone's wearing these days..lol It's rather remarkable if the light hits it just right..lol or so I hear;)
But not all the toys are just for women, they have tons of pleasurable items for men too, depending on how open he is to experimentation.
You see the thing with sex toys is that they are not a replacement for sex, but merely a compliment to the sensation you and that special someone already create together.
Throwing the right toy on the cookie at the right time can ignite a fire hot enough to singe the hairs off your man's lips... if he gets too close;) You just gotta take a little time to explore and see what you like until you find the sensation just right for you.
I could go on all day about sex toys and what they do, but how about I just let youtake a look for yourself. Now that company I just highlighted is one that I personally use and will continue to use when I'm looking to throw a little gasoline on the fire..if you know what I mean;)
Well, Now That We've Made It To The End..
I'm still tryna figure out how you're still sitting here with me and not on the phone calling your boyfriend to come over asap..lol But then again, maybe he's laying there naked right beside you... ;)
Well, until next time, stay drama-free and let that river flow ^_^
Can You Feel It
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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Well, until next time, stay drama-free and let that river flow ^_^
Can You Feel It
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you enjoyed reading this relationship insight, sign up for the BYT Newsletter, so you don't miss the 2 additional Sex Tips I will be sharing on Friday night.
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