Don't go running scared now..lol Yeah, we are goin in today, we are going to look at 5 reasons people have unprotected sex. Now we all now this is risky behavior, but we do it anyway. Why is that? With all the risk of pregnancy, STDs and just plain out drama, people still refuse to be safe. Why is it so hard to just grab a condom, put it on and keep it on? And it's not just the fellas ladies, you're just as bad..lol
Reason #1 Condoms Kill The Sensation
What? They do? Never heard of that one..lol Do condoms really take away from the sexual gratification that two people crave deep within their loins? Is it not possible to achieve orgasm wearing a condom? Well, I'm sure that's whats been said for years and well, in a way it does(or so I hear). But what are you really putting at risk when you choose to go in wearing only your birthday suit? Hmm... Let's see, how about your life, freedom and beautiful bodies. Not all STDs are fatal, but they can definitely leave a mark to make you wish you had worn the proper equipment before a romp in the hay. I'm not telling you what to do, but you should just be aware that STDs aren't the only thing that you should worry about when having unprotected sex. You could end up changing stinky diapers at 3am, unless that's your idea of a good time..lol |
Reason #2 We Don't Have STDs
Really now? No STDs..hmm?. Are you sure about that? You know some STDs have almost no visible signs or symptoms. You could be walking around with bubonic plague between your legs and not have the slightest twinge or angst. So what do you do when you both are clean, tested and have no STDs. Well, there's always the "Pull-Out-Method", but this doesn't always work. And then there's the "Just For A Minute", but a second is all it takes..Hmmm That's a tough one, is wearing protection really that bad? Is it that much of a buzz kill that you can't have any fun with a condom? And don't even get me started on oral sex..lol I can only imagine how those dental dams and condoms taste during the heat of the moment. Probably taste like licking or sucking a wet water balloon..lol But this is just another reason like... |
Reason #3 She Said Can't Get Pregnant
Well damn..lol This is going to be a tough one. It's like walking into Macy's or Foot Locker and someone hands you a black card and says "Have a ball"! So what do you do? Do you just tell, Mr.Sexy Eyes to bend you over the couch and make you scream like a cheerleader? Do you just dive into Ms.Parker's ample assets headfirst? Well.. a lot of people would in a situation such as this. But what about STDs? So she can't get pregnant, but is there a chance she could have a sick monkey? Is there a chance his beautiful soldier could be hiding more than a good time? One never knows.. All I can say is use your best judgement and don't be surprised if you have an "Uh-oh" moment;) |
Reason #4 Kills The Mood
Fumbling in the car is fun when your looking for that quarter that feel between the seats, but not a condom. Going to the store is great, but not when your babe is hot and ready like some Little Caesars. So you two can't stop kissing, fondling, caressing or whatever else for two seconds to grab some protection? Is it really that serious..lol Is is too much just to prepare for the worst and then have a little fun? Sure it might kill the sensation and she's can't get pregnant, but it's only 2 seconds. Tell you what those 2 seconds will look pretty good when you wake up in the morning and you're member is still attached to your family jewels..lol Probably look even better, ladies, when your cookie doesn't snap in half when you sit down to pee..hmm Sex is a risky game, protect yourself at all times. |
Reason #5 We Want To Have Kids
You want what? Kids? You sure you don't want a chihuahah like everyone else? "Woww", now this is a big step! Kids are no little feat, we're talking years of commitment, are you ready for that? Are you ready to wake up at 3am to change a diaper? Ready to spend your last $40 on school pictures? And you two obviously don't like "sleeping in" anymore..lol Well, if you answered yes to "all" of those questions, then maybe this is the only time I would say, Go head and do what you do. Just be sure you can afford all the extra that comes with it. Of course you'll have your little bundle of joy, but you may also end up with some baby-daddy or baby-mama drama to go with it. When you have kids, your life is no longer just about you, it's about the little ones you create. |
Well, what do you think? Don't clam up now, I put some good stuff up there..lol I want to know what you think about those 5 reasons up there. Am I wrong? Sure there's plenty more reasons people have unprotected sex, but these are definitely high up on the list.
When it comes to having protected or unprotected sex, it's really all up to you. You have to decide if it's worth the risk, if that 30 minutes or 15 hours of passion is really worth all the anguish or pleasure you can experience for years to come. And on that note, have the wildest sex of your life!
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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When it comes to having protected or unprotected sex, it's really all up to you. You have to decide if it's worth the risk, if that 30 minutes or 15 hours of passion is really worth all the anguish or pleasure you can experience for years to come. And on that note, have the wildest sex of your life!
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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