Not knowing whether someone is as invested in a relationship as you can be an emotional roller coaster. It can take you through all kinds of highs and lows which can leave you a little crazier than the day when you first met...him.
He came into your life like a knight in shining armor and even today, with everything you two have been through, he remains true. He makes you feel amazing like you just won the lotto every time he walks through the door. He remembers your birthday without you telling him and he even remembered your one year anniversary.
He's one of a kind...but somewhere in the back of your mind you wonder, "Is He In It For The Long Haul?". Well, today I'm going to share 5 Signs you can look for in your relationship to know if your boyfriend is committed to you. Are you ready?
He came into your life like a knight in shining armor and even today, with everything you two have been through, he remains true. He makes you feel amazing like you just won the lotto every time he walks through the door. He remembers your birthday without you telling him and he even remembered your one year anniversary.
He's one of a kind...but somewhere in the back of your mind you wonder, "Is He In It For The Long Haul?". Well, today I'm going to share 5 Signs you can look for in your relationship to know if your boyfriend is committed to you. Are you ready?
Sign 1 - He Opens Up About His True Feelings
"He let's you in on what how he really feels about things.."
Now, if you haven't gotten the memo yet, you're going to get it today..lol
Guys don't just open up about their feelings with just "anyone". They don't sit and cry about their bad day at work or even tell you how sad they are that they suck at basketball. Men are pretty much a self-contained unit of testosterone, bravado with some flecks of compassion. This is most men.
So now, when a man starts to trust a woman and starts believing in the beautiful relationship he has built with her, he can begin to soften. The sharp words of displaced anger he uses to mask his unpleasant feelings will slowly be replaced with words of real emotion.
"I tried my best honey and I didn't get the job". "I know, I don't tell you much, but I love you". "I want to have a family with you and just live happy".
If you hear this kind of talk coming out of your Bad Boy's mouth..chances are he's committed to you.
Guys don't just open up about their feelings with just "anyone". They don't sit and cry about their bad day at work or even tell you how sad they are that they suck at basketball. Men are pretty much a self-contained unit of testosterone, bravado with some flecks of compassion. This is most men.
So now, when a man starts to trust a woman and starts believing in the beautiful relationship he has built with her, he can begin to soften. The sharp words of displaced anger he uses to mask his unpleasant feelings will slowly be replaced with words of real emotion.
"I tried my best honey and I didn't get the job". "I know, I don't tell you much, but I love you". "I want to have a family with you and just live happy".
If you hear this kind of talk coming out of your Bad Boy's mouth..chances are he's committed to you.
Sign 2 - He Remembers The Little Things
"He even remembers the funny story about your first car"
It's so easy for a guy to go out and buy his girlfriend a bracelet when she reminds him that her birthday is coming up in a week.
It's even easier for a man to pick up his lady's favorite ice cream from the store when she's written a list.
But... When a man, buys you your favorite ice cream and brings it to your job just because he thought you would be hot in the office...He's thinking of you more than you know.
When he cooks you a candlelight dinner on the anniversary of the day you moved in together, catching you totally off guard..he's invested in your happiness.
When your boyfriend starts to remember the little things you've shared in those late night chats and pillow talks..this is a good sign he's committed to you.
It's even easier for a man to pick up his lady's favorite ice cream from the store when she's written a list.
But... When a man, buys you your favorite ice cream and brings it to your job just because he thought you would be hot in the office...He's thinking of you more than you know.
When he cooks you a candlelight dinner on the anniversary of the day you moved in together, catching you totally off guard..he's invested in your happiness.
When your boyfriend starts to remember the little things you've shared in those late night chats and pillow talks..this is a good sign he's committed to you.
Sign 3 - He Goes Out Of His Way To Make You Happy
"The kind of smile you couldn't shake if you wanted to"
Some women can't be pleased it seems, no matter how hard a guy may try..lol
But I'll tell you something else, a man whose in love will find himself doing things he would never expect just to make his woman happy.
He will set aside that "book of rules" he governs his life around from time to time and let "You" be the boss. He won't complain about paying $15 for a hot dog you didn't eat at the park nor will he bitch about your class reunion being 3 states away.
His goal is to make you happy in anyway he can and this is another sign that he is committed to you and the relationship.
But I'll tell you something else, a man whose in love will find himself doing things he would never expect just to make his woman happy.
He will set aside that "book of rules" he governs his life around from time to time and let "You" be the boss. He won't complain about paying $15 for a hot dog you didn't eat at the park nor will he bitch about your class reunion being 3 states away.
His goal is to make you happy in anyway he can and this is another sign that he is committed to you and the relationship.
Sign 4 - He Takes His Time In The Bedroom
"If you've ever eaten this..you know why I chose this pic"
When people are just "dating" and getting to know each other, the sex can be more about the orgasm rather than truly connecting with one another.
But ...as couples begin to build on more than just physical attraction and immediate gratification, they realize that the true heat is in the buildup. The Connection.
They start to spend more time pleasing and connecting with their partner rather than focusing on final "100 Yard Dash". They realize that little things such as a love note left on the bathroom mirror will have your body brimming with anticipation..all day long. That's the kind of insight you gain from a committed relationship.
And if your boyfriend is one such "committed" man, he will enjoy the slow burn before he takes both of you to ecstasy time and time again...
But ...as couples begin to build on more than just physical attraction and immediate gratification, they realize that the true heat is in the buildup. The Connection.
They start to spend more time pleasing and connecting with their partner rather than focusing on final "100 Yard Dash". They realize that little things such as a love note left on the bathroom mirror will have your body brimming with anticipation..all day long. That's the kind of insight you gain from a committed relationship.
And if your boyfriend is one such "committed" man, he will enjoy the slow burn before he takes both of you to ecstasy time and time again...
Sign 5 - He Makes It "Official"
"He wants no one else..but you"
Last and finally a 5th Sign your boyfriend is committed to you. He makes your relationship, "Official".
He's no longer sidestepping awkward introductions to his friends and he's not walking 10 paces in front of you while you trail behind. He's walking beside you. He's walking with you. He respects you, as you respect him. He thinks of you before making any major decisions.
He has introduced you to his mother..his father and anyone that feels is important in his life. He talks about you with the utmost respect and fondness.
For him, he has found a woman worth the struggle of relationships. He has found a woman that he can be honest with at all times. He has found a woman that he can go the extra mile for. He has found a woman that he can finally make love to.
And that ladies..is another sign that your boyfriend is committed to you. ^_^
He's no longer sidestepping awkward introductions to his friends and he's not walking 10 paces in front of you while you trail behind. He's walking beside you. He's walking with you. He respects you, as you respect him. He thinks of you before making any major decisions.
He has introduced you to his mother..his father and anyone that feels is important in his life. He talks about you with the utmost respect and fondness.
For him, he has found a woman worth the struggle of relationships. He has found a woman that he can be honest with at all times. He has found a woman that he can go the extra mile for. He has found a woman that he can finally make love to.
And that ladies..is another sign that your boyfriend is committed to you. ^_^
Any Questions?
Now, one might ask, "Hey Jamaal, why did you write this?". The answer is easy. I wrote this because I want to see people happier in their relationships. I want to help people find the answers to those difficult questions that cause drama and stress.
I want people to have the insight and information they need to find fulfillment in each and every one of their relationships. And this..is what I want for you.
Be Happy In Love
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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I want people to have the insight and information they need to find fulfillment in each and every one of their relationships. And this..is what I want for you.
Be Happy In Love
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you enjoyed this BYT insight, be sure to subscribe to the weekly BYT Newsletter to never miss a post and receive additional information that can improve the quality your relationship.
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