Look at her, just as thirsty as she wants to be, but who hasn't felt like that a time or two? Especially at work, where everyone is so close and you can't help but to get closer. One can start to think things like, "I'm stuck in here for 8 hours with this sexy ass man" or "Is he flirting with me or just being nice?"
And then at some point, you get the cojones to say something about it and the next thing you know, BooM, your in the thick! You are caught up in some of the hottest, most taboo sex of your life, but...no one can know about it. At least not a work. Allow me to tell you why...
And then at some point, you get the cojones to say something about it and the next thing you know, BooM, your in the thick! You are caught up in some of the hottest, most taboo sex of your life, but...no one can know about it. At least not a work. Allow me to tell you why...
When you enter an intimate relationship on the job, you're not just putting your heart on the line, but you could potentially be putting your career in jeopardy. Of course, the lure of having a "play-toy" at work is attractive, but it can also be costly. Because what if it doesn't work? What then?
And then again, What if it does? I know I know, you have needs, but before you make a decision, ask yourself...
And then again, What if it does? I know I know, you have needs, but before you make a decision, ask yourself...
#1 Could It Cost You Your Job?
Think about it, you've worked so hard to get to where you're at and now you're thinking about creating a situation that has the potential to blow up in your face. I'm talking about Custard Pie all over the desk, laptop and the co-worker sitting next to you..lol Now, I realize that may have been a bit dramatic, but do you get my point? Where you work is where you make your income, it's a part of your stability. It's how you keep from asking ol' mom and dad for gas money. And yes, I know that little hottie has you thinking somethings, but ask yourself if the sexual relief or insane chemistry is worth the risk of you losing everything you've worked to get? |
#2 Can You Handle The Secrecy?
Are you good at keeping secrets? Could you look and talk to Babe everyday at work while keeping it professional in front of your co-workers? There's no kissing at the water cooler, you know..lol And this goes especially for those of you in a supervisory role or admin position. Just think of how it would look to the rest of the staff. Ever hear the word, "Favoritism" ? And what about those awesome lunch breaks you and the girls have where you talk about what "he" did last night? Are you going to put his business out there like that? Will he put yours? Now I don't want to scare you from quenching that desire you have, but you need to know, everything will change. Plus it's only a matter of time before those late nights begin to take a toll on both of you and possibly show up in your daily work performance. |
#3 What If Somebody Finds Out?
Bingo! What if somebody finds out about that hot little rendezvous you had at The Hilton over the weekend? Is he going to tell everyone about how you loose you were after that 3rd bottle of wine? Will that girl whose name we won't say, blow up your spot because he picked you? If the boss knew what you two were up to, would your job be in question? |
#4 Can You Handle Things Getting A Little Weird?
Okay, so let's just imagine, that there will be no repercussions at work for having a "play-toy", but Babe starts acting funny? What if all the flirting he normally does with all of the girls continues, can you handle it? Can you handle the girls sitting by you at work talking about how Sexy he is in his new suit? Without getting jealous? Now you know, normally hearing about how Sexy he is never bothered you, but that was before you two were dating on the low. So now, can you handle your emotions knowing that everyday women you work with are drooling over your cupcake? And I hate to even bring up this contemplation, but let's just say you two breakup. What then? Will Monday morning be business as usual, when his advances are no longer entertaining? |
#5 How Far Are You Willing To Take It?
So you've endured the jeers from your peers and everyone knows what you and "him" have been doing the past few months, now what? Where do you go from here? Do you and the Babe start going to work in the same car? Taking your lunch breaks together? In an ideal world, that would be heaven, but the likeliness of this is slim because most jobs don't want people developing intimate relationships with their co-workers. So how long can you keep this up? Will you let things get that serious? Is this the one? Is this the relationship you've always wanted? Either way, seems like you've got some thinking to do. |
Well, What Do You Think?
Is having a romantic fling at the office worth the risk? Is it possible to maintain a professional relationship with someone you just slept with a few hours ago?
I hope this few insights helped you to see the puzzle from another angle because relationships can be tricky. Especially at work and trust me, I have been there, I have seen both the Good and the Bad.
Cheers,
Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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I hope this few insights helped you to see the puzzle from another angle because relationships can be tricky. Especially at work and trust me, I have been there, I have seen both the Good and the Bad.
Cheers,
Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you enjoyed reading this post, please share it with another, thanks for reading ^_^