In a world consumed with physical appearances rather than quality of person, a lot of relationships don't last. The reason for this is because the way someone looks on the outside doesn't give a true representation of what's on the inside. And if you didn't know.. it's what's on the inside that matters the most.
It's not just you, I've been guilty of it too..lol I've seen the beautiful woman walking and acting like she owns the world, only to get closer and see that she doesn't have two nickels in her pocket. Have you ever met a man so handsome that he seemed to have it all and then finding out he was a total loser?
I figured that much and that's why tonight's topic is "5 Things You Never Hear About Good Looks".
It's not just you, I've been guilty of it too..lol I've seen the beautiful woman walking and acting like she owns the world, only to get closer and see that she doesn't have two nickels in her pocket. Have you ever met a man so handsome that he seemed to have it all and then finding out he was a total loser?
I figured that much and that's why tonight's topic is "5 Things You Never Hear About Good Looks".
#1 Good Looks Won't Keep Someone From Cheating On You
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Let's just go ahead and just put it out there, if someone's going to cheat - they are going to cheat. It doesn't matter how flawless your skin is or how perfect you're hair is, if he wants to step out he will.
This is why doing things like killing yourself to lose weight or buying an outfit that you can't afford just to keep his interest is a waste of your time. Put that time into something that matters like your career, your kids, family or even yourself. |
"I'm one Sexy Mutha...Whaaatt"
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#2 Good Looks Won't Always Get Someone's Attention
"I get it, I'm just too awesomely handsome for her"
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It's wonderful you look great, but if you really want to get someone of quality, you're going to need more than a pretty face.
Think about it. When you two aren't kissing each other what are you going to talk about? Is there anything of interest underneath the sexy grin? Anything interesting that's not superficial? For relationships to bring to true value into someone's life they need sustenance, something you can both feed on. Something that you can light a candle with in the still of night. Can I get a witness? ^_^ Now, I know a lot of people make it seem like looks are everything and a lot of them do. These aren't the types of men or women you want to spend any time on. Because what happens when your beauty fades? Be beautiful with your inner first, outer second. |
#3 Good Looks Doesn't Mean Someone Can Be Trusted
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Nothing worse than hearing a friend's horror story about the sexy lady that stole a car or the hot guy that pawned someone's diamond rings.
Just because a person may look a certain way, don't be too eager to hand over the keys to your kingdom. Get to know someone for a while before just giving up the "goods". Wolves can be deceptive and they have teeth. |
"Mm mm, that necklace is going to make me rich"
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#4 Good Looks Doesn't Equal STD Free
"Baby, I look this good, why you so worried"?
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In a perfect world, risky sex would be without consequences. Unfortunately, the world we live in has consequences whether we like it or not.
This is all the more reason to know who and what is getting in and out of your bed at night. Mr. Model 3000 could have something potent enough to make your kitten pack up and leave the country..lol Now I know you don't want that..do ya;) |
#5 Good Looks Shouldn't Be The Top Priority When Choosing..
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Now that we've made it down here to Number 5, how are you feeling about "Good Looks"? Are they still as important as they were before you got here?
Have you started to see that how someone looks is only a small piece of what they are actually about? Or maybe you've been the one to say, "I'm more than just a pretty face"? Maybe you're the one that's tired of people thinking you're supposed to act a certain way just because of how you look? Either way, no matter what side of beauty you're on, when it comes to relationships.. looks shouldn't be the deciding factor. Would you rather have someone who looks all Denzel Delicious treat you like crap? Or would you rather kiss the chubby guy that treats you like gold? You decide. Until Next Time -Jamaal(LoverOfLife) |
"I may not be the cutest, but I got moves like Jagger"
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