Have you ever had your boyfriend tell you that you didn't care? Have you ever felt that some times you're too hard on him and need to let him know that it's just something you're going through?
Well, I'm not going to tell you that life will always be perfect, but I can tell you 8 Things you can do to let him know that you care and appreciate your relationship. So, if you're ready..Let's Begin...
Well, I'm not going to tell you that life will always be perfect, but I can tell you 8 Things you can do to let him know that you care and appreciate your relationship. So, if you're ready..Let's Begin...
1. Give Him A Kiss Before He Walks Out The Door
Now this doesn't have to be some "Kiss Me In The Rain" over the top smooch because frankly, who has time for that everyday? Some days, you'll be heading out the door and only have a few moments to spare.
The most important thing you need to take out of this tip is to make physical contact(No Slaps..lol). I'm talking about things like a warm hug, a soft kiss or even just a simple caress on the neck. You want to do something that stimulates his emotional being, as well as, reinforces the physical connection.
Think about how good you feel when he walks up behind you and just puts his hands around your waist and kisses on on the neck(for no reason). Or when he rubs your shoulders when it's a little chilly.
It doesn't take much to make someone feel special and you know him better than I do, so what will you do?
The most important thing you need to take out of this tip is to make physical contact(No Slaps..lol). I'm talking about things like a warm hug, a soft kiss or even just a simple caress on the neck. You want to do something that stimulates his emotional being, as well as, reinforces the physical connection.
Think about how good you feel when he walks up behind you and just puts his hands around your waist and kisses on on the neck(for no reason). Or when he rubs your shoulders when it's a little chilly.
It doesn't take much to make someone feel special and you know him better than I do, so what will you do?
2. Do What You Promise
I've said this before, but I'll say it again, "Be Consistent". If you tell someone you're going to do something, "Do It".
No one likes to be let down and led on repeatedly because after a while they will start to look elsewhere for stability. This is the last thing anyone wants for their relationship, so just following through on what you say you will do can go a long way, especially when it comes to building trust.
No one likes to be let down and led on repeatedly because after a while they will start to look elsewhere for stability. This is the last thing anyone wants for their relationship, so just following through on what you say you will do can go a long way, especially when it comes to building trust.
3. Be Considerate Of His Alone Time
We all need our space and sometimes, guys need a little more room to just be a guy..lol
Now you may not be into everything your boyfriend enjoys and believe me, he is aware of this. So if he tries to watch a football game every now and then or work on his car..let him do it. Let him have his little space to tinker with his toys or get lost in an hour or two of sports.
It's the same way with your shopping and reality shows like "Keeping Up With The Kardashians". He may not like it, but he doesn't bother you when your favorite show comes on, unless you ask him to watch it.
The reason men..well both of you need your free time is so that no one feels suffocated in their relationship. Ideally, both of you enjoy the same things, but sometimes, you will find that there are a few things the other one doesn't like.
Keeping this in perspective can let someone know you care enough about them to put your own needs on hold for a moment to allow them to just ..be.
Now you may not be into everything your boyfriend enjoys and believe me, he is aware of this. So if he tries to watch a football game every now and then or work on his car..let him do it. Let him have his little space to tinker with his toys or get lost in an hour or two of sports.
It's the same way with your shopping and reality shows like "Keeping Up With The Kardashians". He may not like it, but he doesn't bother you when your favorite show comes on, unless you ask him to watch it.
The reason men..well both of you need your free time is so that no one feels suffocated in their relationship. Ideally, both of you enjoy the same things, but sometimes, you will find that there are a few things the other one doesn't like.
Keeping this in perspective can let someone know you care enough about them to put your own needs on hold for a moment to allow them to just ..be.
4. Share Your Feelings
You ever notice how at the beginning of a relationship everyone always say, "I'm fine" when you ask how they feel about something? Like they try to put on the perfect face so you won't see how they really feel?
"Everything's perfect" or "I never get mad" and "Life is great". Even when you know it's not.
But, there is a time in relationships when things start getting real and people actually start to share their true thoughts and opinions about things in "their world".
"Today sucked" "I almost got fired" "I hate that when drivers..." You get the point.
Sharing how you feel about things in "your world" can let him know you care about him enough to trust him with your true self..
"Everything's perfect" or "I never get mad" and "Life is great". Even when you know it's not.
But, there is a time in relationships when things start getting real and people actually start to share their true thoughts and opinions about things in "their world".
"Today sucked" "I almost got fired" "I hate that when drivers..." You get the point.
Sharing how you feel about things in "your world" can let him know you care about him enough to trust him with your true self..
5. Thank Him For The Little Things
This is probably one of the simpler and most often forgotten basic steps of building healthy relationships, but it is a strong as they come.
Say, "Thank You".
Say, "Thanks" when he comes over with dinner and a movie without you having to ask. Say "Thank you" when he buys you that snickers bar you don't need without you even having to mention it.
You know how good it feels, when he lets you know that he appreciates the little things you do to make his day special. So give a little of that back, it only takes a second.
Say, "Thank You".
Say, "Thanks" when he comes over with dinner and a movie without you having to ask. Say "Thank you" when he buys you that snickers bar you don't need without you even having to mention it.
You know how good it feels, when he lets you know that he appreciates the little things you do to make his day special. So give a little of that back, it only takes a second.
6. Don't Compare Him To Your Last Boyfriend
"Well, my last boyfriend didn't.." and "You're just like my ex he always..."
Nobody wants to hear that..lol I'm just going to put it out there. You wouldn't want to hear him comparing you to his last girlfriend or fling would you?
Just respect him enough to treat him as an individual, a unique person that isn't like all the rest.
Because we all know if you treat someone like "all the rest" then of course the relationship will end like all the rest.
Nobody wants to hear that..lol I'm just going to put it out there. You wouldn't want to hear him comparing you to his last girlfriend or fling would you?
Just respect him enough to treat him as an individual, a unique person that isn't like all the rest.
Because we all know if you treat someone like "all the rest" then of course the relationship will end like all the rest.
7. Don't Slam His Dreams Of Success
Now even though your Big Strong Man might seem like he can lift the world in one hand and hold yours in the other..he's only human.
He is a being with dreams and aspirations along with doubt and inadequacies just like anybody else walking the earth. So what does this mean?
It means that he may need you to believe in him from time to time. It may mean he might need you to be strong when he can't. It means that you can show him you care, by believing that he has the ability to succeed in achieving his dreams.
You know how good it feels to know that you have someone in your corner cheering you on, well he needs that too.
He is a being with dreams and aspirations along with doubt and inadequacies just like anybody else walking the earth. So what does this mean?
It means that he may need you to believe in him from time to time. It may mean he might need you to be strong when he can't. It means that you can show him you care, by believing that he has the ability to succeed in achieving his dreams.
You know how good it feels to know that you have someone in your corner cheering you on, well he needs that too.
Now...
After reading this you may have noticed the similarities between some of your boyfriend's needs and your own. Am I right?
So with that, if you want to take these insightful words to the next level. Share it with your boyfriend and just tell him to think of you everywhere there's a reference to a male.
Because I personally can't think of any woman that wouldn't think her man cared if he:
Can You? ^_^
Thanks For Reading
Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
So with that, if you want to take these insightful words to the next level. Share it with your boyfriend and just tell him to think of you everywhere there's a reference to a male.
Because I personally can't think of any woman that wouldn't think her man cared if he:
- Gave her a kiss before she walked out the door
- Did what he promised
- Was considerate of her time
- Shared his feelings
- Thanked her for the little things
- Didn't compare her to his last girlfriend and supported her dreams of success
Can You? ^_^
Thanks For Reading
Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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