In this fine wonderful world of texting, we have stumbled across a naughty habit called Sexting. If you don't know what that is by now, you either don't have a cellphone or you've just gotten your first.
Sexting is where people that want to have sex with each other send naughty chats, images and videos back and forth with the hopes of enticing the other.
For some, this is just a fun way to pass time, but for others it can end horribly. Today, I want to share 3 Things you should keep in mind before you send that kinky pic to your object of desire. Let's go...
Sexting is where people that want to have sex with each other send naughty chats, images and videos back and forth with the hopes of enticing the other.
For some, this is just a fun way to pass time, but for others it can end horribly. Today, I want to share 3 Things you should keep in mind before you send that kinky pic to your object of desire. Let's go...
Number 1 - The Pic You Send Is Lethal In The Wrong Hands
So you've just stepped out the shower, got your baby oil on and you're ready to snap something sexy for that special someone. Well, before you do that, know that the picture you are potentially going to send can have repercussions bigger than anything you could have ever imagined.
Once you send that pic,it's available for all to see. I know he told you that no one will see it, but let's be real...people will see it. His friends will see it and their friends will see it and they will all talk about it.
You and your private pic will be discussed, scrutinized, examined with microscopic eyes and evaluated with great criticism.
"Damn son, her tits are big as hell", "Oh, I know you gonna tear that up", "Does she got a friend?"
Trust me, it's coming and if you're lucky, you'll never know it happened. But..let's just say that this Mr. Special turns out to be a complete ass..he now how has the power to destroy your whole social status.
Don't believe me? Ask yourself, how good you would feel to go into work on Monday and find everyone at work with that steamy pic of you in their email? Just think, how embarrassed would you be finding that picture of you bent over the bathroom sink all over the campus?
Now, take a second and think of all the other places you wouldn't want your "hot nude" to land.
Do I have your attention now? You see, once you send that picture, you have no control or say in where or how it goes. And depending on the person you send it to, it can either end up as a hot night or a living nightmare!
Once you send that pic,it's available for all to see. I know he told you that no one will see it, but let's be real...people will see it. His friends will see it and their friends will see it and they will all talk about it.
You and your private pic will be discussed, scrutinized, examined with microscopic eyes and evaluated with great criticism.
"Damn son, her tits are big as hell", "Oh, I know you gonna tear that up", "Does she got a friend?"
Trust me, it's coming and if you're lucky, you'll never know it happened. But..let's just say that this Mr. Special turns out to be a complete ass..he now how has the power to destroy your whole social status.
Don't believe me? Ask yourself, how good you would feel to go into work on Monday and find everyone at work with that steamy pic of you in their email? Just think, how embarrassed would you be finding that picture of you bent over the bathroom sink all over the campus?
Now, take a second and think of all the other places you wouldn't want your "hot nude" to land.
Do I have your attention now? You see, once you send that picture, you have no control or say in where or how it goes. And depending on the person you send it to, it can either end up as a hot night or a living nightmare!
Number 2 - You're Taking A Big Risk
The risk you take sending a pic like that is super taboo and yet that is often the allure of the whole trap.
"I'm sending something so naughty that I could lose my relationship over it".
"I'm sending a pic that would make Kim Kardashian's ass look cheesecake".
"I'm sending a pic so hot that he'll drop what he's doing and drive over here in the middle of the night".
You get the point right? But it's that same, sense of ego-stroking that leaves one susceptible to the evil that can happen, once the picture is unleashed.
For one, you really could lose your husband or boyfriend over it(if you're sending it to a crush). For two, he could really show up at your door step with nothing but sex on his mind. But what if it's at a time you don't want sex and he doesn't take no for an answer?
Sending a nude is like opening Pandora's Box, it's endless and there is rarely a rainbow at the end of the journey. Because what happens after you send one...you send another..then another and another.
Then the next thing you know, he's got a damn terabyte of pictures and videos of you that could level your career, demolish your standing in the community or online, he has one hell of an assault rifle that you helped him build.
I'm telling you, it can happen just like that. I'm a guy, I've got more pics than I'm going to admit to up here, but I will tell you that everyone isn't like me. Everyone isn't trustworthy like some of the good people in the world. There are some people who like to do twisted shit just to destroy someone they can't have or no longer like.
"I'm sending something so naughty that I could lose my relationship over it".
"I'm sending a pic that would make Kim Kardashian's ass look cheesecake".
"I'm sending a pic so hot that he'll drop what he's doing and drive over here in the middle of the night".
You get the point right? But it's that same, sense of ego-stroking that leaves one susceptible to the evil that can happen, once the picture is unleashed.
For one, you really could lose your husband or boyfriend over it(if you're sending it to a crush). For two, he could really show up at your door step with nothing but sex on his mind. But what if it's at a time you don't want sex and he doesn't take no for an answer?
Sending a nude is like opening Pandora's Box, it's endless and there is rarely a rainbow at the end of the journey. Because what happens after you send one...you send another..then another and another.
Then the next thing you know, he's got a damn terabyte of pictures and videos of you that could level your career, demolish your standing in the community or online, he has one hell of an assault rifle that you helped him build.
I'm telling you, it can happen just like that. I'm a guy, I've got more pics than I'm going to admit to up here, but I will tell you that everyone isn't like me. Everyone isn't trustworthy like some of the good people in the world. There are some people who like to do twisted shit just to destroy someone they can't have or no longer like.
Number 3 - If You Must Send It, Do This
Now, I realize that you may have sent three pics while reading already, but take this one last piece of advice.
Do not, I repeat, do not put your face or any identifiable markings in your pics!
I know, I know, covering up that beautiful butt tatt will take away from the full impact, but trust me, if things go south you'll be glad you did. Remember, Photoshop is your friend, edit until your heart is content.
Do not, I repeat, do not put your face or any identifiable markings in your pics!
I know, I know, covering up that beautiful butt tatt will take away from the full impact, but trust me, if things go south you'll be glad you did. Remember, Photoshop is your friend, edit until your heart is content.
Things To Note...
- Once you send a nude pic, you cannot get it back
- Don't let the rush of taking a risk cause you to lose sight of good judgment
- Every naked picture you send has the potential to wreck your life at any point and time
- Never leave your face or any other identifiable markings the picture, if you must send it
- Know who you're sending it to, be smart
If you enjoyed this BYT insight, please share it with a friend so that they too can be informed.
Until Next Time
Stay Drama Free
- Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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