Well, can you? Look at her.. she's so beautiful, it's almost as if she stepped right out of Playboy Magazine. Her skin is flawless and she looks perfect in every way, shape and form.
But the better question is, Why would you even compare yourself to your boyfriend's ex? There's a reason that you are in his present, his future and maybe even in his bed right now!. His ex is old news and you're the woman of his desire. You're the woman right now at this very moment holding the keys to his heart.
So should you be worried about his ex? I don't think so. Now let me tell you why.
But the better question is, Why would you even compare yourself to your boyfriend's ex? There's a reason that you are in his present, his future and maybe even in his bed right now!. His ex is old news and you're the woman of his desire. You're the woman right now at this very moment holding the keys to his heart.
So should you be worried about his ex? I don't think so. Now let me tell you why.
Beauty Isn't Eveything
As most of the world spends way too much time on one's personal appearance, significant things get lost like personality and intelligence. Some of us remember to go back and include those in when we're putting on our face for the world, but unfortunately some people leave them behind.
Some people think that just because they look a certain way, the world is suppose to cater to their needs. Well, we know that's not how things work in the real world. It takes more than a pretty face to make someone come home at night. Sure, good looks will keep the lust hot and heavy at first, but after he's seen everything a million times.. what's left?
If there's no personality or intellect to stimulate him mentally rather than just his physically, you can be sure that an old familiar face will have his attention. So at this time I say to you...
If your strongest feature is your inner beauty, I wouldn't worry about his ex. But if all you have to offer is a banging body..you'd better make sure your're beauty never fades.
Some people think that just because they look a certain way, the world is suppose to cater to their needs. Well, we know that's not how things work in the real world. It takes more than a pretty face to make someone come home at night. Sure, good looks will keep the lust hot and heavy at first, but after he's seen everything a million times.. what's left?
If there's no personality or intellect to stimulate him mentally rather than just his physically, you can be sure that an old familiar face will have his attention. So at this time I say to you...
If your strongest feature is your inner beauty, I wouldn't worry about his ex. But if all you have to offer is a banging body..you'd better make sure your're beauty never fades.
People Change
Of course people change and so will you. If I was the same person that I was five minutes ago, I might as well just call it quits and jump off a bridge! We all change with every waking minute. We learn, we experience, we try and we fail.
It's the same in relationships, what was once so fresh and new can become dull and old. Dare, I ask what you do with an old pair of shoes? Do you throw them away? Or do you keep them? This makes me wonder what you do with your exes? Do you keep them or throw them away?
What do you think your boyfriend does with his exes? Does he keep them or throw them away? Do you see where I'm going with this? Some people hold on to the past, while others move forward.
And then there are those of us who take what we have learned and experienced in the past to build a better future. Now of course, there are some "shoes" that just fit so well..I'm talking about those shoes that are broke-in to the point that they hold your foot like a glove..lol You ever had a pair of those?
Some shoes that were so comfortable that you could almost sleep in them? Just the thought of throwing them away pains you because you have all these fond memories with them. You wore them to the park, the movies, the cookout and the list goes on.
Until, you find a new pair of shoes that fit just as good if not better than the old ones. They may be a little snug at first and may even be a different color, but somehow you know it's a good fit.
Maybe your boyfriend feels that you're a good fit in his life. Maybe what was once comfortable.. over time became uncomfortable. Isn't that how shoes work? Or shall we say relationships ^_^
It's the same in relationships, what was once so fresh and new can become dull and old. Dare, I ask what you do with an old pair of shoes? Do you throw them away? Or do you keep them? This makes me wonder what you do with your exes? Do you keep them or throw them away?
What do you think your boyfriend does with his exes? Does he keep them or throw them away? Do you see where I'm going with this? Some people hold on to the past, while others move forward.
And then there are those of us who take what we have learned and experienced in the past to build a better future. Now of course, there are some "shoes" that just fit so well..I'm talking about those shoes that are broke-in to the point that they hold your foot like a glove..lol You ever had a pair of those?
Some shoes that were so comfortable that you could almost sleep in them? Just the thought of throwing them away pains you because you have all these fond memories with them. You wore them to the park, the movies, the cookout and the list goes on.
Until, you find a new pair of shoes that fit just as good if not better than the old ones. They may be a little snug at first and may even be a different color, but somehow you know it's a good fit.
Maybe your boyfriend feels that you're a good fit in his life. Maybe what was once comfortable.. over time became uncomfortable. Isn't that how shoes work? Or shall we say relationships ^_^
There's Something Special About You
No two people on the earth are the same, they may look and act similar but each is different in their own unique way. Just like you.
You are one of a kind. There are no carbon copies of you floating around..you are an original. With this knowledge you should take stock in the fact that he chose you for a reason.
There's just something about the way you do what you do that keeps his mind racing..keeps him thinking. I don't know if it's something you put on him that he's never seen, but whatever you have done, you have his attention.
Now what are you going to do with it? Are you going to worry about his ex? Or start living?
You are one of a kind. There are no carbon copies of you floating around..you are an original. With this knowledge you should take stock in the fact that he chose you for a reason.
There's just something about the way you do what you do that keeps his mind racing..keeps him thinking. I don't know if it's something you put on him that he's never seen, but whatever you have done, you have his attention.
Now what are you going to do with it? Are you going to worry about his ex? Or start living?
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-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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