So Selena's boyfriend has left for the evening as he always does on "Friday Night With The Boys". It's not even 10 minutes after he leaves that her mind begins to cycle as she places him in scenario after scenario with woman after woman doing unspeakable things.
Why is this? Just a few minutes ago, before he left she told him that she trusted him. Was this just something she said or does she really mean it? Let's look at her story a little closer to find out...
Why is this? Just a few minutes ago, before he left she told him that she trusted him. Was this just something she said or does she really mean it? Let's look at her story a little closer to find out...
Now, Selena hasn't always been one to have the best relationships throughout her life,as she's been cheated on multiple times. You know how the guys stroll in with their big smiles and sweet words, saying all the right things just to close to a woman they want.
But for some reason, Selena feels that Trevor is different. Trevor has to be different in her book because how can she get cheated on by 3 guys back to back. It's just not possible. Trevor has to be the one to renew her faith in men or she's going to lose her freaking mind.
So now that we have a little backstory on Selena, we can kind of see why her mind is running rampant right about now that her boyfriend has left the house.
She's thinking, "It's only a matter of time before he cheats on me and I'll have to start all over again", but why is she thinking this way?
Just because she's thinking that Trevor is going to cheat does that mean he will? Now, most of you should know by now that what someone thinks is happening is more important that what actually is happening.
Our perceptions and views on how things work are all based on past experiences, both the good and the bad. So if someone's had a string of bad luck, they might tend to be a little more apprehensive or cautious than others who might not even blink an eye at their boyfriend spending Friday night with the boys.
But for some reason, Selena feels that Trevor is different. Trevor has to be different in her book because how can she get cheated on by 3 guys back to back. It's just not possible. Trevor has to be the one to renew her faith in men or she's going to lose her freaking mind.
So now that we have a little backstory on Selena, we can kind of see why her mind is running rampant right about now that her boyfriend has left the house.
She's thinking, "It's only a matter of time before he cheats on me and I'll have to start all over again", but why is she thinking this way?
Just because she's thinking that Trevor is going to cheat does that mean he will? Now, most of you should know by now that what someone thinks is happening is more important that what actually is happening.
Our perceptions and views on how things work are all based on past experiences, both the good and the bad. So if someone's had a string of bad luck, they might tend to be a little more apprehensive or cautious than others who might not even blink an eye at their boyfriend spending Friday night with the boys.
So In Your Opinion...
Does Selena trust Trevor? Or was this just something she said to hide insecurities that have been nurtured through several bad relationships?
Let me know what you think in the comments below.
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-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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