 | "Confidence is what attracts others to us, lack of confidence will drive people away" Are you one of these people that constantly accuses your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating? Have you ever stayed home because you felt that everyone else at the party will look so much better than you? Do you think that if you were just a little bit taller your girlfriend or boyfriend would respect you more? Is it hard for you to take a compliment from your lover on how attractive you are? Is this you? If it is, allow me to give you a little info on how lacking confidence in self can negatively impact the relationship your so afraid to lose. |
Confidence Is Sexy, Here's Why? When you're confident in your own skin, it just exudes a certain sensuality that brings others in for a closer view. If you notice, confident people may not always be the tallest, prettiest or even youngest people in the room, but they have a certain "cool" about them. They are aware that have both weak and strong points, but the difference is they find balance within themselves and take on the day. |  Confidence Is Sexy |
 No one likes a crybaby | Now if your one whose lacking confidence, your relationships won't be the only thing to suffer. This lack of confidence can also decrease your ability to get promotions at work, as well as, get a seat on a crowded bus. You've got to be your own biggest fan because if you don't support you, how can you expect your "babe" to believe in you? How can you expect to be happy with someone when your not even happy with yourself? It's a slow train to hell and it looks like your guiding the tracks. |
Okay, I'm Ready To Be Confident Now
| Hold on, it's not that simple, you don't just flip a switch and suddenly your confident. It takes time and energy, but there are a few things you can do to expedite the process. Yeah, I said, "Expedite" that's your $10 word of the day..lol Okay, but seriously, lack of confidence is basically low self-esteem if you want to get to the meat of the issue. Low self-esteem sucks! What is Self-Esteem? Self-Esteem is the opinion you have of yourself, "If you don't believe you are special" then you aren't, it's that critical. You can guarantee that you will not be truly happy in any relationship if you're not happy with yourself. Now there are various reasons that some people end up here. It can just be something as light as being overweight(pun intended) or something even more serious such as being raped or disabled. Either way, if your opinion of yourself is low chances are your relationships will suffer and you will be alone, again. |  Easy now, .Not the sad eyes |
Will You Help Me Now?
Okay okay, your a persistent one aren't you, sheesh ^_^ So, the best way to start building confidence and getting rid of those insecurities mentioned above are:
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Not What You We're Expecting?
| Well, I hope you weren't expecting me to try and sell you some magic potion or spray because like I said it takes work. A daily effort to find the confidence within yourself through a series of esteem-building actions such as the ones listed. Yeah, I've done a tour or two in mental health, but this is some the same high quality information I've shared with my clients and now I'm sharing it with you. It works if you put in the work. |  |
So, what have we learned today? Can your lack of confidence kill a relationship? Is confidence important in a relationship? Is it possible for you to strengthen your level of self-esteem and be more fulfilled in your relationships? I'm hoping you answered "yes" to all of these questions because if you haven't you just may want to go back and read this once more. "I Love You" - just making sure your awake..lol
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-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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