Too many times I speak with women who have had their lives trashed by "Sorry Ass Men". They all begin with the same story, "He was so sweet and funny in the beginning".
Really? Was he? Or did you just want to believe that he was Mr. Perfect because you were tired of being alone?
Ladies, you've got to do your due diligence before letting some man slide past your guard and flip your life upside down. This is why tonight, I'm going to tell you about 3 types of guys you should avoid at all cost.
Really? Was he? Or did you just want to believe that he was Mr. Perfect because you were tired of being alone?
Ladies, you've got to do your due diligence before letting some man slide past your guard and flip your life upside down. This is why tonight, I'm going to tell you about 3 types of guys you should avoid at all cost.
The Wannabe Dope Dealer
I don't know what some women find attractive in the so called "dope dealer" that never has any money. I mean, if he's moving so much product, why is he still living with his mom? I mean, if he was that legit would he really need to stay in your crowded house along with your two kids?
What is the appeal in the guy who not only risks his freedom, but yours as well, by bringing drugs into your home? You have heard of DSS right? What do you think they do when they find out drugs are in the home along with small children?
I can't tell you the number of women that I have worked with who have lost custody of their children because they were following behind some scum because he was "fun". If fun is going to visit your boyfriend in jail while you take care of 2 kids at home, I don't know what to tell you.
But if you're a lady that doesn't think that kind of lifestyle is fun, remember, the next time a lame ass dope dealer tries ask you for your number run the other way. It's not worth the risk.
What is the appeal in the guy who not only risks his freedom, but yours as well, by bringing drugs into your home? You have heard of DSS right? What do you think they do when they find out drugs are in the home along with small children?
I can't tell you the number of women that I have worked with who have lost custody of their children because they were following behind some scum because he was "fun". If fun is going to visit your boyfriend in jail while you take care of 2 kids at home, I don't know what to tell you.
But if you're a lady that doesn't think that kind of lifestyle is fun, remember, the next time a lame ass dope dealer tries ask you for your number run the other way. It's not worth the risk.
The Alcoholic/Druggie
Dating a drug dealer is bad enough, but now you want to date a drug addict? Talk about jumping out of the frying pan into the fire...smh.
Ladies, there is nothing cute about a man on a crack binge or an alcoholic soak trying to break a television set over your head. Drugs and alcohol have their place and time, but they should not be in your relationship.
It's hard enough, just dating someone sober..lol You've got to learn to communicate, trust each other and work as a team.
Now how much harder do you think that's going to be when your boyfriend is higher than the light bill? How frustrating is it going to be when you send him to the store for groceries and he comes back 5 hours later smelling like pure shit?
And yeah, I bet someone's saying, "He's not like that, he only does a little bit".
I wish you could see my face right now, but I'm not laughing. How much dope do you think it takes for someone to get pulled over by the cops? How drunk does someone have to be to slam you and him into a tree because he was a little tipsy?
Gotta be smart out there..looks aren't everything.
Ladies, there is nothing cute about a man on a crack binge or an alcoholic soak trying to break a television set over your head. Drugs and alcohol have their place and time, but they should not be in your relationship.
It's hard enough, just dating someone sober..lol You've got to learn to communicate, trust each other and work as a team.
Now how much harder do you think that's going to be when your boyfriend is higher than the light bill? How frustrating is it going to be when you send him to the store for groceries and he comes back 5 hours later smelling like pure shit?
And yeah, I bet someone's saying, "He's not like that, he only does a little bit".
I wish you could see my face right now, but I'm not laughing. How much dope do you think it takes for someone to get pulled over by the cops? How drunk does someone have to be to slam you and him into a tree because he was a little tipsy?
Gotta be smart out there..looks aren't everything.
The Broke Ass Never Worked A Day In His Life Guy
For some reason, a lot of women love this guy...lol
I mean you can see him coming from a mile away. Allow me to describe him for you...
- 3 kids all with different "Baby Mommas"
- Behind on child support
- Tries to move in one week after dating
- Has an Xbox controller glued to his hand 24/7
- Won't take out the trash
- Can't cook
- Borrows money from you and uses your car all day while you're at work
- Uses a cell phone that you pay for
Let me know if any of this sounds familiar. I'm telling you, I've seen it and I still don't get it. What do you see in this guy? He's practically a waste of space, he's a black-hole that sucks the life and money out of everything and anyone that gets too close.
Oh, I get it, "He's cute". Well, I'm here to tell you that looks don't pay bills, unless he's a stripper. Sex doesn't put food on the table if he's not a hooker.
So why are you wasting your time on someone that doesn't even care enough about themselves to try and improve?
He's a grown ass man and he's just using you until he can do better. But you..you deserve better...so what will you do? Continue to support his broke ass or kick him to the freakin curb?
I mean you can see him coming from a mile away. Allow me to describe him for you...
- 3 kids all with different "Baby Mommas"
- Behind on child support
- Tries to move in one week after dating
- Has an Xbox controller glued to his hand 24/7
- Won't take out the trash
- Can't cook
- Borrows money from you and uses your car all day while you're at work
- Uses a cell phone that you pay for
Let me know if any of this sounds familiar. I'm telling you, I've seen it and I still don't get it. What do you see in this guy? He's practically a waste of space, he's a black-hole that sucks the life and money out of everything and anyone that gets too close.
Oh, I get it, "He's cute". Well, I'm here to tell you that looks don't pay bills, unless he's a stripper. Sex doesn't put food on the table if he's not a hooker.
So why are you wasting your time on someone that doesn't even care enough about themselves to try and improve?
He's a grown ass man and he's just using you until he can do better. But you..you deserve better...so what will you do? Continue to support his broke ass or kick him to the freakin curb?
So Yeah, I Went Off A Bit..
But I did it, so you can know what type of garbage is floating around out here. Numerous women both young and old come to me weekly with their problems and when we get to the root of them, 9 times out of 10 there is a guy like the ones I described or worse at the bottom of it all.
Have fun and be safe, but use that noodle upstairs before opening your heart to some joker just because he flashed you a cute smile.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
Have fun and be safe, but use that noodle upstairs before opening your heart to some joker just because he flashed you a cute smile.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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