Well, have no fear, I've got what you need right here. In this one insight, I will share with you 10 steps you can take right now that will have him breaking the door down to leave your relationship. Let's Go...
#1 Have Mind-Blowing Sex With Anyone That Is Not Your Boyfriend
Just imagine, he works all day and spends what little bit of money he makes to take you on a date and you reward him by sleeping with some random joker at the gas station.
But if you're more of a quiet gal and don't have the gut for the cheating, you can always....
#2 Yell At Your Boyfriend For No Reason
I don't know about you, but I can't think of any man that likes to be slammed with negative blast after negative blast just because you're in a bad mood. This will surely get him talking about how bad you make him feel and why he should leave.
Going off on your boyfriend for no reason will hit him psychologically and ruin his self-esteem. But, if he's the stubborn type and can't take a hint...
#3 Do Not Return His Phone Calls Or Texts In The Same Day
At this point, you have him in the palm of your hand because he has no idea of where the relationship is. He won't know if he's coming or going and he'll be thinking you're creepin on him, but you're actually just watching Netflix and eating ice cream.
#4 Tell Him How Much He Reminds You Of Your Ex Daily
Especially, if you say it when you're pissed off or better yet when you're really happy. Say things like, "My ex used to kiss me the way you do" or "My last boyfriend was a minute man just like you". Lol, you better make sure you have an escape hatch because shit could get nasty, but that's what you want isn't it?
Now there are some subtle tactics you can use such as ...
#5 Dressing Up To Go Out With The Girls And Dressing Down For Him
I'm talking about pulling out all the stops, the black dress, the high heels that good perfume and the fingernails. Do not skimp on the accessories and make sure he knows you're going to have the night of your life without him.
And if you want to kick it up a notch, you can even get a few pregame drinks in before your girlfriends pick you up in a car worth 10 times as much as his. Just don't get so caught up in the excitement that you forget to tell him "Don't wait up" on your way out the door.
#6 Use Sex As A Weapon
So why not make him beg for it? Make him plead his undying love and then don't give him none at all. Tease him constantly and when he tries to kiss you tell him that you're tired. Tell him that sex is the last thing on your mind as you lay on top of the bed naked, smelling like roses and listening to R.Kelly.
#7 Never Tell The Truth
If he asks you what you did last night with the girls, use your imagination and get as creative as you want, but don't tell him that you really just ate pizza and watched The Notebook three times.
#8 Cook A Fabulous Meal For Yourself And Don't Share One Crumb
You've got to go in the kitchen, break out the peppers and all your spices and only cook enough for one. And if he asks where his plate is, tell him that you forgot he was even in the house.
Plus, when you eat the food, you've got to act like it's pure gold. He needs to know that you're eating the best meal ever..without him.
#9 Change Your Facebook Relationship Status To "It's Complicated"
By now, you should know that nothing is real until it happens on Facebook. One change in your status and you'll have men and women coming out the woodwork to speak their truth on your status.
This is all the more reason to post, "It's Complicated", so that any of his friends stalking your page can alert him to the fact that you are conflicted about your relationship.
The best part is, he will get hit with all types of questions that he is unprepared to answer like, "Is she cheating on you?" and "What happened, I thought she loved you?". Just imagine all the sleepless nights he will have over this one!
#10 Tell His Personal Secrets To Everyone You Know
He's given you the keys to his heart, his identify and his dignity. You have information that could literally destroy his reputation, his credibility and his soul. By telling his personal business to the right people, he will be a lamb fit to slaughter.
No one wants to date someone that they can't trust, so in doing this, he may banish you from his "kingdom" on site..but that's what you wanted anyway..right?
So Now You May Be Wondering...
If you do the exact opposite of everything I have shared, this is how you keep your boyfriend ^_^
Stay Drama-Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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