So you want to know if your boyfriend is using you? Am I right?
You're wondering..."Is he just with me because of what I have to offer?" You want to think that he's not just like all the others, but there's a good chance that he just might be.
Well, I've got some good news and some bad news for you, but first let's find out if he's using you.
You're wondering..."Is he just with me because of what I have to offer?" You want to think that he's not just like all the others, but there's a good chance that he just might be.
Well, I've got some good news and some bad news for you, but first let's find out if he's using you.
Does Your Man Only Talk About Himself And Never Listen To You?
Let's face it, Men can be self-centered bastards when they want to be..lol
But if his whole conversation is "Me, me me" 24/7 and never about you..he may only be with you for his own personal gain. I mean, think about it. What guy doesn't want to know more about the woman he's falling in love with or at least seriously interested in?
I'll tell you who..The guy that's only in it for himself..that's who. You'll know him when you see him..
A spoiled brat that only takes..and never gives back.
But if his whole conversation is "Me, me me" 24/7 and never about you..he may only be with you for his own personal gain. I mean, think about it. What guy doesn't want to know more about the woman he's falling in love with or at least seriously interested in?
I'll tell you who..The guy that's only in it for himself..that's who. You'll know him when you see him..
A spoiled brat that only takes..and never gives back.
Does He Only Show Up When You Have Something To Give Him
If you find that you have to bribe your boyfriend with a good meal or a hot piece of...cherry pie just to get him to come over..Yeah, he's using you.
Far too many women, give a guy carte blanche without even taking the time to see if he's actually even worthy of all of their gifts and talents.
A man that takes his woman and relationship seriously will go out of his way to spend time with her, even if it's just to be of use. He won't care if she's sneezing with piles of Kleenex all over the floor, he'll want to see her..regardless.
But, if the only time you're "boyfriend" acts remotely interested in spending time with you is just to get something in return... You are being used.
Far too many women, give a guy carte blanche without even taking the time to see if he's actually even worthy of all of their gifts and talents.
A man that takes his woman and relationship seriously will go out of his way to spend time with her, even if it's just to be of use. He won't care if she's sneezing with piles of Kleenex all over the floor, he'll want to see her..regardless.
But, if the only time you're "boyfriend" acts remotely interested in spending time with you is just to get something in return... You are being used.
Does Your "Boyfriend" Always Leave Right After Sex?
Wam..Bam..Thank You Maam!
Now, if this guy was just some random you met at a club..then this might not be too wild to grasp but..
If this is your boyfriend, then something is very wrong with this picture. I mean, who would do that?
It would take someone who's self-centered, uncaring and completely uninterested in the slightest idea of building a relationship with you. This sounds more like a "hookup mentality" more so than an actual relationship.
Are you sure he's your boyfriend? And if he is, are you sure he knows that he's your boyfriend?
Now, if this guy was just some random you met at a club..then this might not be too wild to grasp but..
If this is your boyfriend, then something is very wrong with this picture. I mean, who would do that?
It would take someone who's self-centered, uncaring and completely uninterested in the slightest idea of building a relationship with you. This sounds more like a "hookup mentality" more so than an actual relationship.
Are you sure he's your boyfriend? And if he is, are you sure he knows that he's your boyfriend?
Is He Always Asking To Use Or Borrow Your Things?
"Hey Babe, do you have $20 dollars?"
"Babe, can I use your car to run up the street?"
"Babe, can I..can I can I"
If a man comes into your life with his hand out..amongst other things and not bringing anything to the table..he is using you.
My question to you..(if this is the case) would be "Why are you allowing this?".
I mean I know it's tough to find someone that laughs at your jokes and wants to populate half the universe with you, but damn... What's really good?
Can you not see that he's using you? No man that wants a woman to take him seriously, comes into a relationship mooching and begging, unless he's using you to get on his feet.
Sad Truth: There are men out there waiting for needy women to come along just so they can move in and drain them for every last cent.
You're better than that. You are better than that.
"Babe, can I use your car to run up the street?"
"Babe, can I..can I can I"
If a man comes into your life with his hand out..amongst other things and not bringing anything to the table..he is using you.
My question to you..(if this is the case) would be "Why are you allowing this?".
I mean I know it's tough to find someone that laughs at your jokes and wants to populate half the universe with you, but damn... What's really good?
Can you not see that he's using you? No man that wants a woman to take him seriously, comes into a relationship mooching and begging, unless he's using you to get on his feet.
Sad Truth: There are men out there waiting for needy women to come along just so they can move in and drain them for every last cent.
You're better than that. You are better than that.
Is He Never Anywhere To Be Found When You Need Him?
If every time you call Babe to say something like, "Honey, I'm sick can you bring me some soup?" and all you hear is: *The caller has not setup their voicemail and can not be reached at this time. Please try your call again later. *click*
You need to just cut this guy off at the knees because he doesn't have you or your concerns anywhere on his radar.
One of the most important things in a relationship is healthy communication and if the only time he contacts you is when he needs something.. You already know. You are being used.
You need to just cut this guy off at the knees because he doesn't have you or your concerns anywhere on his radar.
One of the most important things in a relationship is healthy communication and if the only time he contacts you is when he needs something.. You already know. You are being used.
And This Is Just The Tip Of The Iceberg!
I know this is hit home for some of you reading this and if it does, you'll definitely want to read this Friday's BYT Newsletter to find out how to put a stop to this madness A.S.A.P.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you have some unique questions about your relationship and want to know if you're "boyfriend" is using you...Leave a Comment Below or Send a message to me on Twitter or Facebook. I promise, I'll answer you back ^_^.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you have some unique questions about your relationship and want to know if you're "boyfriend" is using you...Leave a Comment Below or Send a message to me on Twitter or Facebook. I promise, I'll answer you back ^_^.
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