When it comes to being respected in your relationship there are many reasons it can seem like a never-ending fight. Especially, if you're already having a hard time respecting yourself.
Now why would I say that? Well, you already know some people out there lead with their best "Assets" more so than their mind and end up used and discarded. Don't let this be you.
So to help you accomplish this, I think it's time we take a look at the word "Respect". Are you ready?
Now why would I say that? Well, you already know some people out there lead with their best "Assets" more so than their mind and end up used and discarded. Don't let this be you.
So to help you accomplish this, I think it's time we take a look at the word "Respect". Are you ready?
Respect Your Body
You'd think this would be a no-brainer, but for some reason it's still what trips a lot of women up.
For some reason, they think that if they look a certain way, "Men will give them attention". Well, this is true, but it's not the kind of attention someone wanting a real relationship seeks. The only kind of attention that comes to someone based solely on physical attraction is full of sex and empty feelings.
Now, I'm not saying that two sex kittens haven't magically hit if off from time to time, but for the majority, it doesn't always work out quite so well. When you lead with your "Ass-ets" or your "Bre-ast foot", you can expect the guy to step forward with his Ugly Stick lacking any semblance of intelligence.
So just remember, your body is not a toy to be used and abused, it is something that supports life, gives life and should only be shared with someone worthy of your attention.
For some reason, they think that if they look a certain way, "Men will give them attention". Well, this is true, but it's not the kind of attention someone wanting a real relationship seeks. The only kind of attention that comes to someone based solely on physical attraction is full of sex and empty feelings.
Now, I'm not saying that two sex kittens haven't magically hit if off from time to time, but for the majority, it doesn't always work out quite so well. When you lead with your "Ass-ets" or your "Bre-ast foot", you can expect the guy to step forward with his Ugly Stick lacking any semblance of intelligence.
So just remember, your body is not a toy to be used and abused, it is something that supports life, gives life and should only be shared with someone worthy of your attention.
Every Decision You Make Or Don't Make Shapes The Outcome
When you don't make decisions in life, other people make them for you and sometimes the result isn't always in your best interest.
As you begin a new relationship, you will be hit with 100s of choices that ultimately shape the tone and pace of future interactions. Everything from picking something to eat for dinner, all the way to where you two will spend your One Year Anniversary.
It never stops and each decision either takes you closer or farther away from your goal. So why not be decisive in your actions, at least that way, when the smoke clears you can't blame anyone for not being happy in your relationship.
As you begin a new relationship, you will be hit with 100s of choices that ultimately shape the tone and pace of future interactions. Everything from picking something to eat for dinner, all the way to where you two will spend your One Year Anniversary.
It never stops and each decision either takes you closer or farther away from your goal. So why not be decisive in your actions, at least that way, when the smoke clears you can't blame anyone for not being happy in your relationship.
Searching For Love In The Wrong Places Won't Lead To Happiness
I don't think I have to tell you, but that guy in the club trying to get you to follow him in the bathroom is not Mr. Right.
He's Mr. Right Now, but men like him are a dime a dozen, so why even waste your time? Unless you're just looking for a little late-night action, if so then have at it..lol But for someone looking for a quality partner that will be there in the morning... 3 years down the road, they opt for a higher quality of hunting ground.
Now you have to decide what that means for you, but I can guarantee you that it's not in that dirty bathroom with the dim light.
He's Mr. Right Now, but men like him are a dime a dozen, so why even waste your time? Unless you're just looking for a little late-night action, if so then have at it..lol But for someone looking for a quality partner that will be there in the morning... 3 years down the road, they opt for a higher quality of hunting ground.
Now you have to decide what that means for you, but I can guarantee you that it's not in that dirty bathroom with the dim light.
People Will Always Have Something Negative To Say
You already know I had to go there with this one...
It doesn't matter how happy you are or miserable, you can always count on someone having something negative to say about your relationship.
They will pick it apart, crucify it and compare it to every bad relationship you or they have had in the past.
These are your haters, they can and will destroy your relationship if you let them.
It doesn't matter how happy you are or miserable, you can always count on someone having something negative to say about your relationship.
They will pick it apart, crucify it and compare it to every bad relationship you or they have had in the past.
These are your haters, they can and will destroy your relationship if you let them.
Enjoy The Little Things In Life
If you find yourself single at the moment, don't fret..enjoy it.
Enjoy it to the fullest because you won't be single your whole life. Eventually, you will find someone that's going to tickle your fancy and you'll be off to the races.
So in the meantime, enjoy the quiet and pursue your dreams and goals.
Enjoy it to the fullest because you won't be single your whole life. Eventually, you will find someone that's going to tickle your fancy and you'll be off to the races.
So in the meantime, enjoy the quiet and pursue your dreams and goals.
Choose Your Men With Discretion
If a guy has 3 kids with 3 different women and isn't paying child support or even being a part of any of their lives, Why would anyone think it's going to be different with them?
It's just not going to happen. You can't change anyone and thinking that you can is the gateway to long nights of Advil and drama.
Why did I say that? I said it because it just needed to be said and if it doesn't apply to you, please pass that to any woman you know that thinks different.
You can't save every man you meet nor should you try to. Men are full of drama just like everyone else on the planet. It doesn't matter how good he looks in the suit or how well he seems to be doing financially, he's got issues of his own.
So be sure the magazine is worth reading before you buy your subscription;)
It's just not going to happen. You can't change anyone and thinking that you can is the gateway to long nights of Advil and drama.
Why did I say that? I said it because it just needed to be said and if it doesn't apply to you, please pass that to any woman you know that thinks different.
You can't save every man you meet nor should you try to. Men are full of drama just like everyone else on the planet. It doesn't matter how good he looks in the suit or how well he seems to be doing financially, he's got issues of his own.
So be sure the magazine is worth reading before you buy your subscription;)
Take A Moment To Reflect Every Now And Again
Now, just for conversation's sake, we're going to say you've found a decent one and he's doing everything the last one didn't and more.
Don't become blind to the fact that people change and sometimes what they wanted in the beginning isn't always what they want in the end.
This is the reason it's important to take a moment and reflect on the direction of your relationship from time to time. Who knows maybe your goals have changed?
Maybe you wanted kids in the beginning and now you don't. Maybe he wanted to get married 5 years ago and now he doesn't. This is why taking the time to reassess your relationship is a good way to reduce your chances of spending 10 years with someone that has no intention of giving you what you want in the end.
Don't become blind to the fact that people change and sometimes what they wanted in the beginning isn't always what they want in the end.
This is the reason it's important to take a moment and reflect on the direction of your relationship from time to time. Who knows maybe your goals have changed?
Maybe you wanted kids in the beginning and now you don't. Maybe he wanted to get married 5 years ago and now he doesn't. This is why taking the time to reassess your relationship is a good way to reduce your chances of spending 10 years with someone that has no intention of giving you what you want in the end.
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