"Sometimes the calling to leave is just as strong as the desire to stay"
We've all come to this common crossroad a time or two in a relationship when we don't know if we want to stay, but not really sure if we want to go. I can't be the only one whose felt that, but since I'm the one writing, I guess I'll do the talking(lol).
So what normally happens when you feel that tug in the pit of your stomach? Do the little things start to piss you off even more than they did before? Do you start calling each other names over the dumbest things? Most people do, but...
"One's happiness isn't always the easiest road, although it can be the most obvious" -babeyoutrippin.com
No one said love was easy or that making those tough calls was a walk in the park. Sometimes we need a little push. Have you ever been in a relationship where everything was wrong with it, but you still stayed for some strange reason? It's almost like an alien captured your mind and you just go through the motions with no emotion. I'm pretty sure that this sounds like an excerpt out of a science fiction movie for someone that's never experienced it, but it happens. And I'll bet it's happened to you, even if you don't want to admit it.
If there's one thing you have to remember in a relationship, it's that people are supposed to make a positive difference in your life. You don't need anyone that's going to pull you down or make you question your own abilities. They will try to pull you down with all their might, but you can't let them win.
So when you're faced with that gut feeling of "Do I Stay or Do I Go?", you more than likely know the right answer. But, will you do the right thing?
I know, I know, it's a tough call to make, but someone's got to have some sense in the relationship. The world doesn't need two people being miserable. Your side piece doesn't even want the drama and I'm sure you don't want an extra person that you have to avoid like the plague.
So let me ask you. In the last rocky road you encountered, did you stay longer than you needed to? Did you leave in time to catch your flight to a stress-free holiday in the Bahamas? Or did you stick around in the mud and wallow in your own self pity. Dang, went a little deep with that one, just pictured a pig rolling around in one of those funky ass pens on ol Jack's Rd..lol
Another tidbit to remember in a relationship or hookup or whatever type of arrangement you have, is that it's suppose to be rewarding. Not in the monetary sense, although that is a nice little compliment to the affair, but on an emotional level.
If you are with someone and your just not feeling fulfilled at the end of the day, it's time to leave. You could stay and try to work it out and for some that truly works, but for most, it's just prolongs a slow intolerable death. And that's when people start creepin and lying and sliding all over town with Sarah, Suzy and Jim. No one wants that kind of drama on their hands because people will get hurt and it could be you.
Now, to end this on a lighter note, if your not happy-get happy. Or stay where your at and get ready for the long ass trip!
Well, what do you think? Have you ever been torn between happiness and more misery? I'd love to hear about it, write your experience down below. And if you have an extra sec, please share this with another^_^