If you're tired of dating the same kind of guy after countless relationships and you don't understand why "This Type Of Guy" keeps finding you, you'll want to read this.
You'll want to read this because there's a reason you keep attracting the same kind of men into your life. You'll want to learn how the things you do in your life impact the relationships you try to build.
You'll also want to know why you keep ending up with the same type of guy no matter how hard you try to get someone different. I'll tell you the secret...It starts with you. Are you ready to find out why?
You'll want to read this because there's a reason you keep attracting the same kind of men into your life. You'll want to learn how the things you do in your life impact the relationships you try to build.
You'll also want to know why you keep ending up with the same type of guy no matter how hard you try to get someone different. I'll tell you the secret...It starts with you. Are you ready to find out why?
People Feed Off Of Your Energy..Positive And Negative
As the forces of attraction push us towards or pull us away from others, the only thing we can control is our own energy. Now, if you're on the fences about the amount of energy you put into the world around you..hear me out.
In all aspects of life, you put out energy. Some positive and sometimes negative, but either way you put out an energy. And it is this energy that brings certain types of people into your life or repels them from your orbit.
Notice how people who enjoy the same things gravitate towards one another. It doesn't matter how weird their interests are, they will find each other and have something in common.
But what about those who find themselves attracting people they don't want to be around?
Well, in a sense, we all pull people towards us that we don't particularly care for in some sense, but with a difference.
The difference depends on the strength and clarity of the energy you exert on your environment.
If you're wishy-washy, whimsical and just kind of blow in the wind, then you can expect any and everything to stick when it tries to connect. But if you are certain in your actions, thoughts and conversation, it's going to be kind of hard for energies you don't want.. to stick around.
In all aspects of life, you put out energy. Some positive and sometimes negative, but either way you put out an energy. And it is this energy that brings certain types of people into your life or repels them from your orbit.
Notice how people who enjoy the same things gravitate towards one another. It doesn't matter how weird their interests are, they will find each other and have something in common.
But what about those who find themselves attracting people they don't want to be around?
Well, in a sense, we all pull people towards us that we don't particularly care for in some sense, but with a difference.
The difference depends on the strength and clarity of the energy you exert on your environment.
If you're wishy-washy, whimsical and just kind of blow in the wind, then you can expect any and everything to stick when it tries to connect. But if you are certain in your actions, thoughts and conversation, it's going to be kind of hard for energies you don't want.. to stick around.
Wolves Like Weaker Prey
Would you ever go swimming in the ocean with an open wound on your leg? Would you ever wear hamburger underwear and walk up to a rabid pit bull?
If the answer is "No", my question is, Why would you try to date someone that you know preys on the weaknesses of others?. Now, as well all know, every weakness can be a strength at certain times and others it's just well..a weakness.
Some people are hard-wired to find what they consider to be "inferior individuals" because it makes them feel better about themselves. It genuinely makes their day to know that the person they are dating has a lower IQ, less money or not even half of the resources they have.
This places them in a position of power and control. Now guess who they try to control? You.
And of course there is a flip-side to this story if you find that the type of men you date are "weak" and not capable of standing up to you.
You may even feel that they lack the ability to support you emotionally and/or physically in any semblance of a relationship. But.. you date him anyway, hoping that he'll be different. And then you find that he's just like all the rest.
Why?
Well, they say the definition of insanity is to repeatedly keep doing the same thing expecting a different result. Guess this means, you'll have to change your way of doing things ;)
If the answer is "No", my question is, Why would you try to date someone that you know preys on the weaknesses of others?. Now, as well all know, every weakness can be a strength at certain times and others it's just well..a weakness.
Some people are hard-wired to find what they consider to be "inferior individuals" because it makes them feel better about themselves. It genuinely makes their day to know that the person they are dating has a lower IQ, less money or not even half of the resources they have.
This places them in a position of power and control. Now guess who they try to control? You.
And of course there is a flip-side to this story if you find that the type of men you date are "weak" and not capable of standing up to you.
You may even feel that they lack the ability to support you emotionally and/or physically in any semblance of a relationship. But.. you date him anyway, hoping that he'll be different. And then you find that he's just like all the rest.
Why?
Well, they say the definition of insanity is to repeatedly keep doing the same thing expecting a different result. Guess this means, you'll have to change your way of doing things ;)
If You Don't Know What You Want, Anything Tends To Find You
So how does one exactly change? How does one make different choices that impact what types of people they attract into their lives?
Well, they find clarity in what they truly want within or out of a relationship. They are reasonably unyielding with their expectations.
Now of course, I'm not talking about being a complete Bihh..tryant..lol I'm talking about knowing what you want and not accepting anything less that what you want in your life.
If you want a smart man, whose well educated and stable within his life. Guess what? You need to be the exact same thing. What kind of conversation can you expect to have with someone when you don't even speak the same language or think on the same level?
If you don't know, I'll tell you, it will be one of the Inferior and the Superior.
Relationships need balance. The Yin And Yang if you will. But... for this cycle to propel your love life into dimensions you can only dream of, you have to...
Well, they find clarity in what they truly want within or out of a relationship. They are reasonably unyielding with their expectations.
Now of course, I'm not talking about being a complete Bihh..tryant..lol I'm talking about knowing what you want and not accepting anything less that what you want in your life.
If you want a smart man, whose well educated and stable within his life. Guess what? You need to be the exact same thing. What kind of conversation can you expect to have with someone when you don't even speak the same language or think on the same level?
If you don't know, I'll tell you, it will be one of the Inferior and the Superior.
Relationships need balance. The Yin And Yang if you will. But... for this cycle to propel your love life into dimensions you can only dream of, you have to...
Be The Person You Want A Relationship With
You can't be an insecure woman and say that you want a secure man to come in help you balance the boat. Do you know why?
It's because he's going to overpower your boat and take it over. You're going to be swabbing the deck and he's going to be issuing all the orders. Now if you ask me, I don't think that's a relationship anyone wants besides a sailor..lol
Now, just in case that metaphor was a little too out there, let me reel it in a taste. People gravitate towards people that share the same interests. If you're about family and your conversation, thoughts and actions represent family, you will attract more family-oriented people.
But if you're about family and nothing about you says Family, you will not attract that type of person. If you're someone whose about their career and building wealth, what kind of quality person do you think you're going to find during $1 night at the disco?
It's really simple when you think about it, but in everyone's struggle to be loved and appreciated by all, they lower their standards and settle for less than they feel they deserve.
Don't settle, be the person who has clarity and puts out the energy that she wants to receive back from the world around her..within her relationships and all throughout her life.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
It's because he's going to overpower your boat and take it over. You're going to be swabbing the deck and he's going to be issuing all the orders. Now if you ask me, I don't think that's a relationship anyone wants besides a sailor..lol
Now, just in case that metaphor was a little too out there, let me reel it in a taste. People gravitate towards people that share the same interests. If you're about family and your conversation, thoughts and actions represent family, you will attract more family-oriented people.
But if you're about family and nothing about you says Family, you will not attract that type of person. If you're someone whose about their career and building wealth, what kind of quality person do you think you're going to find during $1 night at the disco?
It's really simple when you think about it, but in everyone's struggle to be loved and appreciated by all, they lower their standards and settle for less than they feel they deserve.
Don't settle, be the person who has clarity and puts out the energy that she wants to receive back from the world around her..within her relationships and all throughout her life.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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