When it comes to relationships, some people shoot for the stars while others play with the crabs. Well, if you wanted to be a fishermen then that would be perfect, but you don't. You want to be satisfied in all aspects of a fulfilling relationship. You want good times, great talks and Amazing Sex! That's right, Sex!
So what this means is, you won't settle for just any ol relationship. You want quality not quantity. And just in case you missed the bus, allow me to tell you the reasons that this is the relationship you want.
So what this means is, you won't settle for just any ol relationship. You want quality not quantity. And just in case you missed the bus, allow me to tell you the reasons that this is the relationship you want.
You Deserve To Be Happy
In life, there are so many obligations and demands you must meet in the world, why would you want to be with someone that's going to bring you down?
You deserve to smile, you deserve to be happy..so do it! Be happy and don't let anyone tell you different. Nothing worse than a buzz kill sitting on the edge of the sofa trying to tell you what you can or can't do. Have the relationship you want!
You deserve to smile, you deserve to be happy..so do it! Be happy and don't let anyone tell you different. Nothing worse than a buzz kill sitting on the edge of the sofa trying to tell you what you can or can't do. Have the relationship you want!
You're Worth It
You are a champion! You do so many great things for others and it's time you realize your worth.
As someone of your caliber, you expect a lot of yourself and you should have the same expectations of others. Now, if you decide to reach out and support a charity-case(you know the type) then that's your choice.
But, do it because you want to, not because you've settled for less than you deserve.
As someone of your caliber, you expect a lot of yourself and you should have the same expectations of others. Now, if you decide to reach out and support a charity-case(you know the type) then that's your choice.
But, do it because you want to, not because you've settled for less than you deserve.
You Want More Out Of Life
Oh what dreams you have...You want so many things in your life and you can attain them if you have the right people supporting you. That means, people that are negative, you don't need. Not him, not her or any of those naysayers trying to keep you locked in a box. You don't want it and don't need those types of energies in your circle. You are someone that is capable of achieving many great things and you should never stop striving to reach the stars. Sometimes people can see all the wonderful things lined in your future and try to "latch on", in the hopes that they get a free ride. But you're smart, you see them for who they are. Now the only question is "Will you allow yourself to be sucked into a relationship you don't want? One you don't deserve? |
You Will Find Someone Right For You
Along your journey, you will encounter many people. Some will hurt you and some will help you, but people can only do what you allow them to do. The right person will come along eventually, if you haven't met them already. They are probably doing the same thing as you pursuing their dreams and being happy. Relationships should be a compliment to the life you want to create for yourself. Not an obligation or something that you feel forced to be in. Do a little self-searching and find out what kind of relationship you want in your life, then grab it! |
Any Questions?
Now I hope that cleared up any confusion for folks in relationships they just "settled" for. And I also hope that this reinforced the importance of those that don't settle to keep pushing for something better.
Life is like a rainbow, full of colors and rain. Sometimes the rain makes the colors brighter and other times the rain brings a storm. If you want your life to shine as you see fit, never settle and never quit.
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
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Life is like a rainbow, full of colors and rain. Sometimes the rain makes the colors brighter and other times the rain brings a storm. If you want your life to shine as you see fit, never settle and never quit.
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you know someone that is settling in a relationship that could use this information, please share.
And also, don't forget to sign up to the BYT newsletter to get additional insights not posted on the site.