Do you find that sometimes you're never really sure if his feelings are genuine or just in the moment?
You playback the whole night in your mind leading all the way up to where you are now...standing in the doorway with him wanting to come in.
But what will you do? You wonder things like, "If I let him in, will he still love me tomorrow?" and...
You playback the whole night in your mind leading all the way up to where you are now...standing in the doorway with him wanting to come in.
But what will you do? You wonder things like, "If I let him in, will he still love me tomorrow?" and...
Is He Just Out For An Easy Lay?
He could be..but the real question is what do you want?
Do you want to try to build a relationship with this guy? Can you see yourself with this guy several months from now walking in the park? Or are you just out for a little fun yourself?
Just remember there's nothing wrong with letting his mind wonder in curiosity for just a little while longer. Because if he's really that into you, he'll be blowing your phone up before get out of that long cold shower.
Do you want to try to build a relationship with this guy? Can you see yourself with this guy several months from now walking in the park? Or are you just out for a little fun yourself?
Just remember there's nothing wrong with letting his mind wonder in curiosity for just a little while longer. Because if he's really that into you, he'll be blowing your phone up before get out of that long cold shower.
Does He Even Care About Me As Much As He Says He Does?
It's possible, but then again, "How many bottles of wine did you two drink?"
You know one thing about drinking and dating is that inhibitions have a way of taking a backseat. All the little red flags and doubts that litter our conscious have a way of evaporating the more intoxicated one becomes.
So what do you do? In my opinion, if you are unsure, then the answer is "No". All it takes is one misguided moment of passion and All Hell Breaks Lose.
But then again, there's just something so alluring and mischievous about hot sex with someone you just met.
You know one thing about drinking and dating is that inhibitions have a way of taking a backseat. All the little red flags and doubts that litter our conscious have a way of evaporating the more intoxicated one becomes.
So what do you do? In my opinion, if you are unsure, then the answer is "No". All it takes is one misguided moment of passion and All Hell Breaks Lose.
But then again, there's just something so alluring and mischievous about hot sex with someone you just met.
Is This Even Something I Want?
Ding..Ding..Ding..You've found the million dollar question!
Is this something you even want? I know you're horny, but is this what you had planned for your night?
Go out to the bar and bring some random guy home? If it is, then Jackpot..lol But, if not you may want to wait until you sober up a bit.
Now there's two ways to do this and possibly still salvage the night. One being to invite him in and prep some food so both of you sober up and the second is to give him a long hot steamy kiss that would make a pornstar jealous..just before you say "Goodnight Chuck" ;)
As I said in the beginning, if he's into, he'll respect you and be watching the phone like a hawk.
Is this something you even want? I know you're horny, but is this what you had planned for your night?
Go out to the bar and bring some random guy home? If it is, then Jackpot..lol But, if not you may want to wait until you sober up a bit.
Now there's two ways to do this and possibly still salvage the night. One being to invite him in and prep some food so both of you sober up and the second is to give him a long hot steamy kiss that would make a pornstar jealous..just before you say "Goodnight Chuck" ;)
As I said in the beginning, if he's into, he'll respect you and be watching the phone like a hawk.
So Why Did I Write This?
I wrote this because I know what it's like to be eye to eye with the point of no return. You know that moment when if you do it, nothing will ever be the same. That point where, you know you'll have all types of fun, but the stakes are higher than the light bill.
Now, if you haven't found yourself in a situation such as the one discussed above, don't worry you will..lol But the difference is when it happens for you, you can recall these words and make a decision knowing full well that nothing will be the same after.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you enjoyed reading this insight, share it with another person. Maybe these words can help that friend of yours whose always calling you at 2am to come get her ass out of trouble ;)
Now, if you haven't found yourself in a situation such as the one discussed above, don't worry you will..lol But the difference is when it happens for you, you can recall these words and make a decision knowing full well that nothing will be the same after.
Stay Drama Free
-Jamaal(LoverOfLife)
If you enjoyed reading this insight, share it with another person. Maybe these words can help that friend of yours whose always calling you at 2am to come get her ass out of trouble ;)
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